Old St Helen's Church at Longhorsley. The oldest verifiable records that can be found of the Milfield Grey's ancestors are at Longhorsley. The church to the south of the village used to be visible from the A697, but is now hidden by a group of trees. No sign marks the path through the gate from the main road to the church.
John Grey of Longhorsley's grave. Lying flat beside the southern wall of the grave yard, it is practically illegible and has the lower half missing. It looks as if having broken in two it may have been moved to its present position against the wall as it is aligned south/north. As it is very square it may once have been the top of a table tomb rather than a standing stone.
Elizabeth daughter of Mr John GREY of Longhorsley Died June 17[60] Aged 8 years William his son died Decemr 16 17[--] Aged [6] Years Geo his son died Janr 7th 17[52] Aged 3 years Thos his son died Janr 17[--] Aged 1 year. Ann his daughter died May 3d 1760 aged [2] Years. Mr John GREY died [------] 6th 1778 aged 68 years. [……………] 1785 aged [--]
The headstone fits the parish register and the illegible dates could be: "Elizabeth daughter of Mr John GREY of Longhorsley Died June 1752 Aged 8 years William his son died Decemr 16 1752 Aged [6] Years Geo his son died Janr 7th 1753 Aged 3 years Thos his son died Janr 1753 Aged 1 year. Ann his daughter died May 3d 1760 aged [2] Years. Mr John GREY died [------] 6th 1778 aged 68 years. [……………] 1785 aged [--] ." A sad list of five, possibly six, dead children.
The parish registers at Longhorsley have a large number of children whose father's name is Wiilliam Grey. The burial records show a William Grey burial dated 03 Nov 1805 Wm GREY Age 50 Abode Horsley Bricks, Notes died 01 Nov 1805, Farmer. There is a record of a William Grey marrying an Ann Young at Longhorsley on 3 July 1754. This fits with the Youngs at the the nearby farms. But if she was born in 1724 she would only be 14 when John was born if he died aged 79. It is possible since the stone is so worn that 79 might be 59? This would make his birth 1758 rather than 1738 and therefore nearer his brother.
The nearest Young grave is 91B "Ralph YOUNG died Dec 27 1746 Aged 69 years. Mary his wife died March [--] 1772 aged 7[-]. Ann daughter of Ralph YOUNG Junr of Todburn died Nov 17 [1751] Aged 11 years. Mary his daughter died Nov [--] 17[--] Aged [--] Years. William his son died Nov [--] 1785 Aged [--] "
No. 94 also "Young" is a well decorated one with detailed imagery; two angels with wings and two funerary urns with a long skirted woman holding a skull.
The grave of William Grey, leaning towards the west and with the centre now badly eroded. It is decorated with a flower. The symbol of the fragility of life or of immortality.
"In memory of William GREY of Horsleybricks who departed this life December 12th 1796 aged 80 years. His wife Mary Ann GREY died January 14th 1793 aged 6[9] years. William their son died Nov [1st] [1805 ] aged [50] years. John their son died Febry [15th] [1817] aged [59]"
As these sons were both buried with their parents it seems unlikely that William is the father of John.